Good day ladies …
I am a 42 year old medical doctor and wish to speak to all ladies with insecurities today …
Firstly ladies trust me when I say there is no such thing as one “normal” vagina. I often have female patients asking me to please help them to have a “normal” looking vagina. Ladies each and every vagina is normal and as unique as your fingerprints. Trust me, in my line of work I see vaginas on a daily basis, and can promise you in my lifetime as a doctor I have never seen two vaginas that are exactly the same in look, size, shape and yes even smell.
Now on the outie vs innie issue. Believe me when I tell you there is no medical evidence that any other factor than genetics will contribute to the length of your labia lips. The only other human factor that will lengthen your labia is labia mutilation by means of attaching weights to your labia lips for long times, as some African tribes do.
Many women feel insecure about the size of their inner labia and clitoral hoods, because men have created this myth that having a lot of sex will give women this longer labia lips. IT IS NOT TRUE !!!
In my profession as doctor I have operated on female patients as young as 12 ( I am a gynaecologist ) and they have their hymens in tact ( proving they have never been sexually active ) with very large inner labia lips, and I have operated on females 50 years + ( some of them admitting to have worked as sex workers at some stage in their lives )and the have innie vaginas. This is proof that the amount of sex have nothing to do with the size of your inner labia !!!
I myself and a lot of my male friends prefers longer labia lips on a lady. So please my dearest ladies accept and love your vagina the way it looks. You have been created that way, and if many man tells you otherwise or request you to have surgery to make them smaller, show him the door !!! You are unique and beautiful just the way you are !! Take a hand mirror and spend some time exploring your vagina and embrace the way it look and feel and once you accept that the insecurities will also start to fade away. BTW 95% of men don’t even notice or give thought to the size of your labia lips whilst he is busy down there !!
Only consider reducing the size of them once they cause pain or discomfort when having sex !! So please go out today and LOVE your vijayjay !!!!!
My boyfriend has always said he thinks the fact that I'm somewhat hairy down there is beautiful, but he's never eaten me out or fingered me. The pubes tend to sort of shed and are so kind of course, and I feel like he wouldn't like to have a mouthful or handful of pubes after sex... I'm scared to shave there because it's such a sensitive area... Do you or anyone else have any tips of shaving down there and or making your pubic hair softer? Thanks|
I feel you sister. My situation is quite similar. The best advice I can give you is to trust that he won’t mind. Sex is dirty and weird but that’s okay. Pubes are a natural thing that everyone has.
Genitals of the Day
Kind of an awkward angle.. But none the less!
I’ve recently discovered vagina confidence after my boyfriend basically praises my vagina. I always thought it looked gross or weird… but now i really like it. The labia minora are a little big, but i like them that way :)
It’s great that you have such an encouraging partner. Your vulva is beautiful and I’m glad you realize that! Thanks for submitting.
this guy posted on facebook “Girls who participate in No Shave November will also participate in No D December. ”
YES BECAUSE YOURE TOTALLY IN CONTROL OF OUR BODIES AND WOW YOU WONT HAVE SEX WITH ANY GIRL WHO DOESNT SHAVE WOW OH NO WHAT A SHAME ALL THE FEMALES WILL BE SO DISAPPOINTED OH GOD HOW DARE YOU HOLD OUT ON US ALL WOW WHAT WILL WE EVER DO I GUESS WE’LL ALL BE FORCED TO SHAVE JUST SO WE HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO FUCK YOU AND GUYS LIKE YOU
okay will someone please explain to me how a vagina can end up looking like this
Because genetics, that’s why. It’s perfectly natural for a vulva to end up with long luscious lips and many people find it beautiful, because it is beautiful. You’re welcome to you’re own opinion but don’t shame those with lippy vulvas.
Vulvas are extremely varied in color, symmetry, size and shape, and that is beautiful.